Mark Unread is a feature in some email clients that proves that people use their inbox as a TODO system. Mark Unread says: I have actually seen this, but I need to trick my future self into treating it like I haven’t so that they will deal with this in a way that I can’t right now. I don’t have any particular problem with at, unless it became a major crutch, because then I’d think you there would be a lot of time-savings to be had by only dealing with those emails once instead of multiple times.
Now Slack has the same feature, which is is being poked fun at:
I guess it just shows how powerful a concept “Unread” is. Theoretically, unread email doesn’t have any priority yet. Just because it is unread doesn’t make it important. But in practice, it does. Unread emails have the power to become the most attention-grabbing of all emails. Like a lottery scratch-off: will I win? Gotta play to know! Will this next email have some good news in it? Gotta read it to know! And so we exploit that feeling even to our future selves.
I had on my list to check out Leave Me Alone, a service that purportedly helps unsubscribe you from newsletters and such. You give it access, and it, presumably, starts digging through your email finding newsletters it can help you unsubscribe from. Seems useful, if you trust a third-party reading your email. That’s a big leap for me, erroring on “no”.
I thought I’d just sign up and get as far as I could before it got creepy. This is where it got creepy:
There is a step here where you have to type in your Gmail password into their app. Nope. You never see this. Google has secure auth systems where the only place you type in your password in on a real secure Google URL. No way in hell am I coughing up a password like that to a third-party.
Remember, if your email is hacked, your entire life is hacked. The person with access to your email can reset your password anywhere else.
I have no idea if the company is credible or not, and to their credit, they tell you to turn on 2-factor auth before proceeding, but this just smells all kinds of fishy.
Hey maybe this is a bit obvious (but that has never stopped me from blogging it).
Maybe I’ve mentioned this before (same).
But if you just can’t seem to get going on your email, just get one answered. That’s it, only one. If you have to stop after that, fine, but I’ll bet ya more often that not that kicks off the momentum and you can knock out a whole bunch of them in a row after that first one goes out.
This happened to me with house chores the other day. I just couldn’t get started, but I just forced myself to empty the dishwasher and after that, before I knew it, I had the power drill out and was fixing a cabinet door.
There is no easy to find publish date on this site, but from the metadata it seems like it’s circa June 2014.
Pat Flynn talks about his struggle with email, starting with hundreds of unread emails, and creeping up to many thousands. He tried tooling, and it helped a little, but not enough. The answer, after years of doubt, was to hire an executive assistant. After the hiring, it took 3 weeks to get down to 0 unread emails.
His assistant, Jess, had a nice strategy. She focused on different types of emails, which was discovered by actually reading the email. A lot of it was spam, so that’s easy enough to trim down. Turns out only 5% of it needed to be dealt with. Still, a big job when 5% is 500 emails, so they did ultimately declare “email bankruptcy” (delete it all), and start fresh. I’d think they probably plucked out the very most important emails before doing that.
They talk about getting over a hurdle of trust to let someone else have that kind of access to your inbox. I get that. I’d probably never do it for my personal email, but a business inbox, sure. The other obvious hurdle though is cost. I’d bet most of us don’t have an income-to-email ratio that supports the idea of hiring someone just for this.
Fun quote from the show:
Email is just another way to organize other peoples adgendas.
Firstly, mailto links make it hard to copy the address, for example if you want to share the email address with someone else.
Secondly, some users use more than one mail app, and the link just uses whichever has been setup as the default, without giving them the option to use the other.
And finally, many users don’t have an email application set up, which means the link can take them to a dead end or down a rabbit hole.
For that first one, personally, I find it easier to copy because browsers provide that right-click “copy email address” UI. But I can see how that isn’t know by all and not exactly mobile friendly. Two and three seem like edge cases. Not enough to give up on the links for.
But! Where they end up after a couple of iterations makes good sense:
Show the email, so it’s obvious what the link does
Offer to copy the email address, which is nice UX, and solves the edge cases.
Oh no, Brian, whatever will I do without your aggressive marketing spam.
It’s funny though. While this is so obnoxious to me I’d never work with Brian or Awesome Pros (it tells me a lot about how they operate as people, and I don’t jive with it), I bet it works. I bet Brian could give a shit less if I’m annoyed by him or not, as this he probably drums up clients right and left by doing it. If he wasn’t, he wouldn’t be doing it.
I think the idea is pretty cool, particularly on a site without on-site comments.
If you have access to your own RSS template, this should be a fairly easy thing to add. On a WordPress site, you could always add a filter (or other ways). But I happen to use the Yoast SEO plugin, and this is a default feature:
I’ve still been on my kick that the email client you use doesn’t matter that much. It’s the 20% compared to the 80% representation your habits and technique for being good at email.
But there is some counter-evidence here. Like Jonathan Gitlin saying that Inbox (RIP) was anti-helpful in cleaning house:
… like all webmail interfaces (to me at least), isn’t nearly as conducive to a good bit of spring cleaning as an actual desktop application. Automatically bundling emails into groups—Promos, Updates, and so on—kept them out of my way, so in addition to never being read they never got deleted.
What I needed was a good email client, at least to bring my work account back into control. Apple’s Mail.app has suffered from a general if nonspecific malaise for years, and so I canvassed my coworkers for suggestions. On OS X, Airmail 3 seemed to get the most recommendations, and that’s the one I went with. After it spent several hours downloading my messages, it was another day or so’s effort to sort, cull, and then mark-as-read roughly 3,400 unread emails. At the end of it, I felt a small measure of accomplishment.
In Jonathan’s case, the email client (and a day of hard labor) actually helped him get things back under control.
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Some text you can auto-copy to put in an email so that it definitely gets caught by the spam filter. So you can say you emailed and not be lying.